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Emotional Intelligence

The Global Identity Crisis: A Great Unmaking

Posted by on Apr 14, 2025

Right now, I see the world as experiencing a massive identity crisis—one that is not just social or political, but spiritual. It mirrors the Dark Night of the Ego on a global...

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Own Your Value

Birthing Ontocracy

Posted by on Jul 13, 2025

There’s a moment that comes after the healing, or most of the healing anyway — one that few people talk about. It’s the quiet after the storm, when the ego finally stops bracing...

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Tools & Tips

The Ego Isn’t the Enemy – It’s the Structure

Posted by on May 9, 2025

There’s an idea among many spiritual seekers that the ego is a bad thing and that we need to somehow ‘get rid of it’. A few teachers remind us that getting rid of...

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Education

Lessons in Betrayal from a Scorpion

Posted by on Apr 30, 2025

Years ago, my husband and I were having one of our many philosophical conversations about emotional truths. He brought up the topic of betrayal, and I sat with it for a bit before...

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Recent Posts

Collapsing Paradigm; Rising Consciousness

Collapsing Paradigm; Rising Consciousness

Apr 22, 2025

I remember listening to one of the many candidates as they stumped during the primary season this last year. I listened with a growing sense of dis-ease as they spoke about how obvious were the various solutions for fixing the many ills being discussed. “Just do that … like last time!” I paused and sat with the feeling, asking it what message...

The Global Identity Crisis: A Great Unmaking

The Global Identity Crisis: A Great Unmaking

Apr 14, 2025

Right now, I see the world as experiencing a massive identity crisis—one that is not just social or political, but spiritual. It mirrors the Dark Night of the Ego on a global scale, where long-held assumptions about who we are—as individuals, cultures, and nations—are being torn apart. The insistence on Identity as absolute and unchanging is not just a symptom...

Unity: Not What We Think

Unity: Not What We Think

Apr 2, 2025

We are shifting from a world built on control and submission (power-over) into an era of sovereignty and conscious connection (power-with). With power reclaimed and boundaries set, the final step is learning how to build together.   The False Promises of Unity Unity is one of the most seductive ideals of the Piscean Age. It calls to something deep within...

Boundaries are the Rules of Engagement

Boundaries are the Rules of Engagement

Mar 21, 2025

In the last episode, I explored my journey through a growing understanding of power. That post actually started as a review of my journey through understanding boundaries, but I realized that without owning my own power, the ability to recognize and enforce my boundaries was pretty much moot. So, the topics were broken into two pieces, though I now think they...

Redefining Power: From Control to Collaboration

Redefining Power: From Control to Collaboration

Feb 14, 2025

We are shifting from a world built on control and submission into an era of sovereignty and conscious connection. But how do we evolve without falling into chaos? Here, I explore the foundation of that evolution — my relationship with power. If I were to ask you what the definition of Power is, what would you say? Is it control? Influence? The ability to shape...